Anyone who’s ever worked in kindergarten or first grade knows that emergent writers often write strings of letters.
For example: The flowers grow.
Sometimes the strings of letters are much longer and harder to decipher. A next teaching point would be working on the concept of words.
Enter Mr. Finger Space.
He’s a handy little tool for young writers, to facilitate their thinking about each word they’re trying to write and to begin making spaces between them.
I have, as you can see from the leading photo, a colorful collection of googly-eyed Mr. Finger Spaces ready to get to work.
Today as I passed by the jar, this gathering of Spaces seemed so beguiling that I thought: There’s a blog post in this. Somehow.
I snapped a photo and went on my way.
I knew the accompanying story would come. That’s how it always works. A spark of inspiration, given time to grow . . .
This time it came pretty quickly.
As usual, it didn’t arrive as the expected story. Not about a little writer employing a cheery craft stick—I mean, a Mr. Finger Space!— to compose a sentence of separate words for the first time.
It came after a conversation with a colleague about her wonderful weekend getaway, reconnecting with old friends, reliving priceless experiences:
There’s so much I’d forgotten, that I haven’t thought about in so long . . . it was incredibly meaningful to have those memories come rushing back. How important they were, those times we shared. I loved every minute of remembering and at the same time was saddened by how much I’ve lost because day-to-day responsibilities take all my focus . . . you know there’s not room to carry it all around in your head all the time . . . .
You need to write about them now, I told my colleague. My friend. Those memories, while they’re freshly stirred. Preserve them before they leave you again. Spend time going back in your mind, immersing, and you’ll be surprised at what you can recall.
I know this to be true from my own experience, over and over again.
A sigh. The longing was etched on her face: Just how to find the time . . .
That’s when the googly eyes of Mr. Finger Space appeared in my mind; I immediately understood the message.
Moments of love and laughter, priceless gifts, slipping away under the weight of just living. Fragile strings of memory running together until the beautiful meaning is nearly obscured . . . .
The only way to stave off such loss is to push this often senseless, insensitive, jumbled-up world back, if only for a few precious minutes, in the midst of every run-on day. To breathe. To plunge deep into the recesses of your mind, to know yourself, who you are, and what really matters. Feel the stories pulsing through your being. Fight for them, to keep them alive.
Find the words. They’re all there, within you. They just haven’t been put into organized form yet.
Make the space.
Put your pencil to the paper. Just start.
The rest will come.